Shy Genes
I've often wondered why I couldn't have gotten just a few more of the outgoing genes that my brother was so generously blessed with. It seems strange, and sometimes frustrating, that I should have been so shy for a good part of my life, while Dan doesn't seem to have a shy bone in his body. My sister, Laura, was shy as a young child, too, but she overcame much of her shyness earlier than I did. I suspect that the explanation is simple, at least on the surface: we have one parent who is, by nature, rather outgoing, and one who has always been more of an introvert. It's all in the genes. Do you ever wonder why God makes us so different from each other? How would it be if everyone was extroverted? Would everyone want to be in charge? On the other hand, if everyone were introverted, would people be able to communicate effectively with each other? It definitely takes a variety of personalities to make the people in our world work well together. ...