"Grandma"

I don't see Toby as often as I would like, especially during the school year.  I'm hoping to see him more than once a week, now that summer is finally here.  I love to see his smile of recognition, and his big blue eyes watching me so intently when I talk to him. Holding him is a special pleasure, but I suspect that I'd better enjoy it while he's willing to be held, because he'll soon be wanting down to explore the world around him.  Babies grow up so fast!
Technically, my education background, and my job as a public school preschool teacher, make me an early childhood specialist.  I can't help but keep track of  Toby's growth and development--it's what I do.  So, I'm well aware that he is growing and progressing normally for a four month old baby.  I'm always glad to answer any questions but, as his grandma, I try not to offer Meagan or Andy too many suggestions about parenting.  There's really no need, because they are doing a great job!
My role as grandma is significantly different from my previous interaction with infants as mom, foster mom, aunt, day care director, and teacher.  I'm still learning my role, and I will continue to learn how to be Toby's grandma for the rest of my life, as he grows up and changes.  I am so blessed to live close enough that I can build a relationship with him almost effortlessly.  We have so much to look forward to!


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